From my understanding you are what you are and that won't change. You're born into your future and what your future is gonna look like. If you were born into a family with men as drugs dealers and mob mentality then that's all you'll ever know. No matter where life takes you you can't change what you have been brought up in.
Look at the Gotti family, do you think Victoira Gotti hated what her father did? Yes but at the end of the day her man is probably gonna be an image closer to what her father was. Am I making sense here? One of my classmates' parents are both doctors, one studies eastern meds and the other studies western meds and what does he want to be?... A doctor, but flying aircraft is his hobby.
My point being you can't remove anything from your life that you've been around for your entire life, like the saying goes everything starts at home, and to me no matter where you go or what you achieve, home goes with you, its in your pocket, on your sleeve, in your heart, no matter how rich or poor you may be you are either rich or poor becuase of the home you came from.
Maybe I'm being ignorant, but it's just what I understand from things. It might sound stupid but hey, this is my understanding.